A married man has cried out about how he got to know that all the four children that his wife bore for him are not his.
In a long mail sent to marriage/relationship expert, Bisi Adewale, the man revealed how he needed blood transfusion following a surgery. He decided to get the blood from the children, since he does not have same blood group as his wife. But surprisingly, none of the children’s blood groups matched his.
Read the post below as first published by Pastor Bisi Adewale:
Confused black man
“My name is Johnson, a 48-year-old civil servant living in Lagos. I have been married for 24 years now with four lovely children I believed were mine. But it is now clear that they do not belong to me and my wife, Esther, must have been sleeping around with other men and planted the pregnancies on me.
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“Before I got married to Esther, she had claimed to be pregnant for me and since I did not want to have children outside of wedlock, we had to get married. When she gave birth to our first child, a boy, I was over the moon with joy and vowed to give her the best I could. It took us about four more years before a second child, a girl came. I was so happy that I bought her a car and opened a business for her as a reward because my people were getting worried.
“Another three years passed before our second son came and then our last born, a girl after two years. We agreed to stop having babies so that we could give the four everything we could to make them comfortable.
“The children went to the best
“The doctor, a personal friend, did not find that funny and jokingly asked if he should conduct a DNA test on the children to which I agreed. I felt they were mine and the mismatched blood groups could just be a coincidence.
“But lo and behold, the DNA results showed that the four kids were not mine. Looking very worried, the doctor decided to run some tests on me as well and found out that I had a very low sperm count with a mere 11% chances of impregnating a woman. Since this revelation, I have been tempted to ask my wife who the real fathers of the kids were but I dread what the answers would be. Another reason is that I love the children so much and they see me as their only father and letting them know would really destabilize them.
“But I still feel they need to know at some point in time. I am still holding out on revealing the secret but for how long would I be able to withhold this? Please I need your advice on what to do.”
What advice would you give him?
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