I want to know if your friends can give me the guidelines on how to leave with a cheating man

My husband has been on this cheating game for long, but I am just trying to remain with him, he plays it safe because he never misses his condom. I know that for sure. We have six kids,all boys. Madam I go wherever I go and he gives me whatever I need, but my problem is with his ways with women. The worst is that, these women are the one calling him always. I am tired of prayer on this his cheating stuff.

I happened to get hold of one number that calls him often, because my husband don't password his gadgets, it's alway open and I have access to his messages anytime I want to. When I called that number, the lady picked and when I introduced myself, she asked me how I got her number, she said if I want her to let go of my husband, I should tell my husband to stop disturbing her for sex. I was shocked . I went along and saw another ladies message to my husband on social network site and when I seeked for the ladies friendship, she accepted and I told her to please stop spoiling her marriage, she wrote me this message

"Madam joker, please don't make a mess of yourself in here, do you think you can have him all to yourself , you must be a big joker, enjoy the money the way, I too is enjoying it, don't even mess up because you will be thrown out before You know it, let me tell you, your husband is even a good man, sometimes I just help him rub his stomach, massage his legs because he doesn't want to have sex , reasons be that, he wants to reserve the energy for you his FBI wife. Thank your stars, because he is always on condom because I would have been pregnant by now for him, to come and have a share of his property, greedy woman! If you spit rubbish in my inbox, I will come make you a second wife, marry him for 5 solid years and divorce him on the 6th year, I don't want to be in this bondage you guys called marriage. I will not show him this your messages to me, so he won't get mad at you . Bia madam, behave yourself and know from today, you are sharing him with me. Stay on your lane,let me stay on mine! Nonsense .

I want to wake up from this night mare, I copied her messages to you so you can know the gravity of what am facing ! Nwaanyi ibem, how will I swim this ocean, 16 years of marriage !

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My husband got my maid pregnant and she gave birth to a girl

It happened when I went to do my 2nd masters abroad. Before I came back the girl ran away. In fact two months to my return she left the house. It was when I came back that I knew the reason of her leaving my house. Immediately she took in, she left my house and my children were all alone. When I came back my husband said he didn't know the reason she left but he later said he didn't know how he will present it for me, that it was devil, because devil carries all the blames when things go wrong. I have 4 children(4boys) and I trusted this my house help, my mummies friends daughter, never knew it will end up like this. And this has created big enmity between my mother and her school friend.


This happened last 8 years and this is the 3years of the girl(our daughter is living with us) , so last, 3years he said he wants to go and pick his girl from the lady, I first refused but I later agreed, he brought her home, I enrolled her in the same school my last child was attending because others are in secondary school. I am a banker and on weekends I try to make time for my family, cook and stock my freezer for the week. I cook my food myself, because my husband don't eat out at all.

This one started last December, I started seeing my husband with the mother of that girl. The first day I saw them at the shopping mall he said he coincidentally saw her. The next one was in a bank, I went to see a friend, I used my lunch time to rush off and see a friend. When I was coming out of my friends office I saw them at the counter, he said he didn't come with her. But last month proved my suspicious mind right. I went to the hospital, had serious headache and decided to go check my BP. so I met her, she walk pass me, so when I asked the nurse, she said the lady is doing ante natal. I was so surprised because she is not yet married, I called my mother, she said she forgot about them along time ago.

I am human so my suspiciousness grew and I started keeping a tab on my husband, calling him to know where he is. Last Sunday he got an urgent call at the church where we are seated and he left immediately. The way and manner he left made me wonder, why he left, I called my cousin immediately and told him to take a bike and follow his uncle and tell me where he was going. When my phone rang, he told me he came to a hospital and he sent me the name and I rushed down there, but I sent him back to go take my children home for me, the small ones and our daughter because the two eldest just got into the University. When I got to the hospital, I was entering ward to ward, till I saw my husband with the mother of this girl, he was sitting by the bed inside the room. I walked in and he was speechless. When I started asking questions, he couldn't give me any answer, the nurse walked in, giving the lady some drugs, I asked the nurse please what happened, she said she had a miscarriage.This was another hospital entirely, not the family hospital I saw her in. This was a general hospital.

When I asked my husband what he was doing here, he never said anything, I asked him again he said he can explain himself, I called him his name twice, when he looked at me I slapped him twice, and told him I have had enough of his lies and deceit. I told him that I am done. Am 50 years, so I can live on my own. He is 57 so he can still re marry

Admin I want a divorce, he is your Facebook friend, I know you will be shocked but that girl you always tell me she is beautiful isn't my daughter. Its that woman's daughter. I and my children were going to summer and she travelled to USA with us. I love her like a daughter, what else can l do again for this man. Why will he betray me like this? He is your Facebook friend, if am lying he should tell you. But if he tells you to shut down this post, don't ever do that. I had to pour out this afternoon because my heart is heavy. Why won't he cheat on me where I am the one working my ass out. He does business so he had all the time to flirt around. I told him this morning to take his children for a dna test that anyone that shows negative he should shoot me in the head. I have never in my life cheated on this man with all the advances I get from men, still yet he did this to me. Am so pained Admin. I will never forgive him for this. His people said they will come to see me this weekend but I told them not to bother because am done. Good day to you.

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